Free Dating Apps 2019: Why Love Is Expensive
Love is expensive.
Look at how much money you’ve spent on love: you went shopping for new outfits in order to impress your dates; you bought Valentine’s Day gifts every year; you paid for trips with your partner….
I interviewed several founders of free dating apps 2019 and asked for their opinions on this frequent topic of discussion – why love is expensive.
Material things are the foundation of love in reality.
It’s easy to say “I love you”, but it’s hard to make love sustainable in the real world, as evidenced by the high divorce rate in most countries these days.
“I doubt whether Betty Draper would marry Don Draper if Don isn’t rich,” says Lewis R., founder of a free dating app 2019, “Don bought her an expensive fur coat and very soon they got married.”
“I don’t know any famous woman who is married to a poor man,” says Katie S., founder of another free dating app 2019, “Almost every famous woman that I know is married to a rich guy.”
Indeed, material things are the foundation of love in every culture. Without material things, it’s a bit hard to feel loved. That’s the uncomfortable truth.
Of course, when I say “material things”, I’m not just talking about fur coats and diamond rings. In fact, I’m mostly talking about things like housing, experiences, etc. – Are you able to live comfortably with your spouse? Can you afford to eat in a restaurant at least twice a week with your spouse? The truth is if you are arguing with your partner because you feel anxious due to the mortgage you have to pay or you can’t have a truly romantic date night with your partner because you can’t afford to go to a fancy restaurant regularly, it’s hard to be in love.
This is especially true when you know you have other options. After all, we live in a modern world where people have access to free dating apps 2019.
The most memorable dating experiences aren’t cheap.
When was the last time you opened a surprising gift and really feel amazed by how luxury it is?
You know what, some people never have that kind of experience in their lifetime.
Sofia A., founder of a free dating app 2019, claims that her most memorable dating experience happened ten years ago when she was seeing a high-profile businessman in Shanghai.
“Shanghai is a jet-set location,” says Sofia, “When I was working in Shanghai ten years ago, I was dating a very well-known businessman there. He took me to the best restaurant where movie stars frequent. We went to see the best movies in the most luxurious cinemas. He bought me expensive clothes, makeup and jewelry. At the end of each day, he gave me an envelope which was full of cash. Usually, it was US$1,000 in every envelope.”
Sofia A. didn’t marry that guy (I doubt whether that guy is single or not because most rich men in Shanghai are married). Ten years later, Sofia A. started a free dating app 2019 which has premium features catering for the needs of wealthy daters looking for high-quality dates.
Now Sofia A. is living in Sydney, Australia. She says the dating dynamics in western countries are very different. “When I was in Shanghai, I guess that high-profile businessman was using other people’s money to impress me. But now I’ve realized that rich men in western countries are less likely to do that, so currently similar experiences are less common. Having said that, I think one reason is I’m older now, and men prefer younger men.”
After starting the free dating app 2019, Sofia A. has realized that dating successful men brings her other benefits as well – she has met many other rich guys because of those dating experiences – a rich man knows other rich men.
Yes, Sofia A. has joined her own dating app as well. You might meet her on her free dating app 2019.
“Love is a concept invented by poor people” VS “Love is expensive”:
Brandon Wade famously said, “Love is a concept invented by poor people. Love doesn’t exist.” He was featured on CNN because of that statement.
Don Draper once said, “Love doesn’t exist. It was invented by people like me to sell you stuff.” Rachel Menken was very impressed by Don’s honesty. Then Rachel slept with Don pretty fast.
Both of them have their own very strong viewpoints and I respect that. But what I’d like to say is love is expensive, meaning when money isn’t an issue, we can talk about love. However, when money is an issue, it’s very, very difficult to talk about love (or even think about love).
According to Maslow’s hierarchy of human needs, everyone needs to feel safe before they look for love. In other words, when an individual’s safety (including financial security) is challenged, this person probably wouldn’t look for love because he/she needs to have financial security first. And Sofia A., founder of free dating app 2019 agrees with that completely.
Celine Dion has been singing many romantic love songs for decades. But if her husband didn’t have the resources to give her a successful singing career, would she fall in love with him in the first place? Probably no.
How to make money work for your love life:
There is a difference between being rich and being happy. Gary Vaynerchuk said, “I know many multi-millionaires who have a lot of money in the bank, but they are very, very, very depressed and unhappy. I also know many people who make $40,000 a year and they are perfectly happy. To be honest, the real value of the Internet isn’t about becoming a millionaire by running an online business. I think the real value of the Internet is about making a decent income online, i.e. $70,000 per year, so that you don’t have to be stuck in a corporate job that you hate.”
I highly admire Gary Vaynerchuk’s honesty. Unlike most Internet marketers who sell snake oil, Gary is blunt and honest – he literally says you are probably not supposed to make a billion dollars on the Internet, and even if you are going to become a billionaire, it doesn’t mean you will be happy as a result.
When founders of free dating apps 2019 started their own online businesses, they didn’t plan to become multi-millionaires because they were just working on something that they are passionate about.
For instance, Jackson W., founder of a free dating app 2019 says he makes a decent income online and he always makes sure that he spends his money in the right ways.
“We often talk about saving money whenever we look at any financial advice,” says Jackson W., “Yes, saving money is important. I agree with that. But in actuality, I think learning how to spend money in the right ways is also a very important topic. In my case, I spend money on things that I value. For example, I like taking my girlfriend to travel the world – that makes us happy, so I spend a lot of money on travel. Meanwhile, I ruthlessly cut costs in terms of things that I don’t value – I don’t even have a TV because I don’t like watching TV.”
I want love, and I want LV as well.